How can you make it out the friendzone? First question you must ask yourself is how did you get there....
Chances are you came off too strong or not strong at all, you have not found the balance in life for the "chase". Chasing a woman is an art form, there is no exact science, you have to study the woman and honestly have some luck. One may say the right things at the wrong moment answer end up in the friend zone.
However you got to this position, there is only one way out and it's time for you to "shoot your shot" or throw the "hail mary". If you are familiar with sports or modern day lingo, you understand what those statements mean. If not, its basically means it's time to take a big risk hoping for a big reward.
Ok, so you decided to take your risk, how do you go about showing her that you are interested in being more than her friend?
From your self evaluation , u should know whether you have came on too strong or not strong at all. If you came on too strong, timing is everything, you may have to sneak in during one of her weak moments, but keep applying that pressure and make yourself more appealing to her likes, she will come around. If you are the wimp/nice guy type, you definitely have a chance, you just need to be aggressive.
Here are the 3 stages to getting out the friendzone:
1) Grow some balls
I was once in the same mental space. I was settling to be a friend to a woman I desired. It seemed better to be her friend at least I would be in her life and she would eventually realize a nice guy like me is what she needed, boy was i wrong, the slow death of seeing the girl you want date other men is a pain I can't explain. This experience made me do some self evaluation and I then decided to man up and go after what I wanted. Hanging out in a woman's friend zone waiting for a day for her to take you seriously is the epitome of settling, know your worth; you deserve to be more than just a friend . What ever your motivation is with this woman, you are going to express it to her. Each woman is different. You have to know the exact environment where she will be responsive to your approach. This may not persuade her enough at first instances but if your follow up with a date request, she probably will take you up on it. It is important that you show that you can be the man she needs. Stop being a wimp
2) The date
Congratulations, you have succeded in atleast opening her mind to the idea of you being more than a friend. You already have all the answers. While you been in the friendzone, she has confided in you about what she desires in a man. Be that man; take her by surprise. Show her that even tho she didn't expect you to be such a perfect match for her, you are that and more. This is an open book test that you already have the answers to. Ace that test my friend.
3) Sex
Bust her a$$, plain and simple, this closes the deal. If you are capable of reaching this level, you my friend are almost completely out the friendzone, what is worse than the friendzone? being refriended because you didn't do your thing in the bedroom. #Endi'sLifeLessons if ever you want to continuously have sex with a woman, that first go must be memorable . Memorable in a way that on a random night , she is sending you "WYD" or "WYA" texts.
Fellas, I know, the main reason we end up in the friend zone is because we actually like the woman and are afraid to misstep and mess up the relationship forever. This is a chance you must take. Come up with a plan Of attack for the woman and follow it. Friend zone is the worst position you can be in. Find the courage to tell that woman what's on your mind. If she is for you, it will work, if not I'm sure you will find one suitable to compliment you.
Keep updated for Part II : The Liberation
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