Friday, March 20, 2015

FriendZone Part II : The Liberation


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This is the second installment of the friend zone series, if you haven't; please take a look at Part I  so that you are all caught up.

Happy Ratchet Friday,
First day of spring and snow is on the forecast, (sigh) hopefully today's post can help get you through the day.
Let's begin.



So you shot your shot, and you failed miserably, you are still in the friend zone... ask yourself,  is it worth just being a friend?.  The only reason u accepted the position in the first place was for the chance he/she would eventually notice you and want more than just a friend. After you gave your best, you are in an unwanted position. So What's next?


Take your ball and go home: in layman's terms; accept defeat and move on with life. Get over this person and stop playing yourself,  this person doesn't see what you want them to see in you. Move on and find someone who is interested. Stop offering something to someone and not getting what you want in return, relationships are give and take; why do you give but not receive what you truly  need? Liberate yourself from the person who doesn't think anything special of you. Know your worth and that you deserve more than that friendship,  If your friend zoner can't see your value then don't give the pleasure of being a friend. Take the effort you make and invest it in someone who can appreciate the person you are and desires YOU.

Men:

If you keep up with the posts on this blog then you would have read and understood the post Lauren wrote (Curve Brackets) , from this post one can get the idea of how a good percentage of the woman population select the men they choose to date. There are exceptions to the rule, you can find a woman that appreciates the nice nature that you have. You just have to get up out that baron wasteland that is that shallow woman's friendzone and find yourself a Queen that can appreciate what You have to offer.

Women:

Men are just as shallow , if a man has put you in the friendzone, he is not attracted to you,  instead of thinking,  what can you improve to get him to notice you,  how about you just improve for yourself and accept the men that think the world of you?  I know the emotions of being with a guy you IMAGINE is perfect may take over the logic sometimes,  but wouldn't it be better to be with a man that thinks you are a Goddess rather than the average girl only after him cause of what he looks like and has achieved?  Find your "perfect match" not the "perfect man".


STOP SETTLING !!! , you are a prize to someone in this world,  you don't have to put your self in a position that you don't want to be in , in hopes of one day "winning the lotto". Be active,  go out and find the right person for you, I believe a friend can be your soulmate, but; your soulmate would never dismiss you to the friendzone to to seek others.  There are too many available people in this world, please don't get caught up on one who doesn't appreciate what you have to offer.

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